Ever wonder what’s going on inside someone’s head? All. Day. Long. This year has been exciting for our six year old daughter. She became a big sister and graduated from kindergarten. She currently loves to play outside, swim and run through sprinklers, read, make crafts, and go to summer camp. She is most excited for a new summer camp with a best friend next week and our upcoming summer vacation. With all this excitement, she is also able to deliver some fierce emotions regarding her dislikes. She does not like waiting for me to take care of her baby sister each time we plan a fun activity, or cleaning her room, or vegetables with dinner. She can go from the sweetest happiest girl to yelling at me in seconds. What is going on inside her head? Watching Inside Out was a fun look at how emotions work together. My daughter and I were invited to see it several weeks ago and then watched it again the day it was released in theaters. This one is definitely not just for the kids; every parent can learn from this movie too. My daughter’s new Inside Out feelings journal has been a great tool to help her express feelings, ranging from happy to sad, when she is frustrated.
A few months ago, long before we ever saw the Inside Out movie, my husband and I changed our approach to time outs. Instead of sending our daughter to her room as a consequence for a negative attitude, we started asking her to write how she was feeling in a journal. I expected to read a description of why she was feeling angry or sad. The first time we asked her to write down her feelings she returned the journal with exactly that, feelings, not a story. Mad, bored, sad, and not happy made frequent appearances in her journal. But what stood out the most was the day she wrote, “like I’m not special”. Having her write down her feelings instead of simply sitting angrily in her bedroom helped us understand how she felt.
Inside Out taught us that sometimes feelings don’t quite know how to handle situations, just like when my daughter expresses her frustration by saying or doing things unintentionally. She related to each character and after the movie we talked about different times each emotion made her behave a particular way. It was much easier for her to talk about feelings when thinking about the characters from the movie. Joy, Anger, Disgust, Fear, and Sadness slowly became part of her journal entries. Instead of having her write in a blank journal, I made her a printable Inside Out feelings journal.
We are still having her write how she feels instead of sending her to time out as a negative behavior consequence. But now she asks to write in her journal on her own too. It’s important for her to express when she is feeling happy too. She has always been appreciative and polite but I feel recognizing when she is happy is helping her learn about herself too.
Yesterday she was joyful because we saw Inside Out again in the theater. I’m sure we will see another Inside Out feelings journal entry about Joy when we bring her dad to see the movie with us too.
Inside Out is now in theaters and is our very favorite summer movie. Do you have plans to see it with your children? This movie also makes a great adult date night and truly will change the way you wonder what is going on inside your child’s head.
Print the free Inside Out feelings journal to help your child express their feelings.
Learn more about Inside Out by connecting with the movie on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.
For more Disney writing activities, see my free printable Finding Dory writing prompt.
I love this idea, but in my humble opinion it might be better to continue to allow her to name her own emotions, rather than reducing them to the five emotions from the movie. You could still then have the second section where she elaborates on ‘why’. Gosh, as she grows, there are so many other sections you could add (strategies she used it thought of using for any of the times that negative emotions were getting her down; how the strategies she tried worked; thoughts about others’ emotions, etc.).
Agree wholeheartedly. We spoon feed kids too much. Let them free flow!!
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THANK YOU!!!! My son has ASD and stuffs all of his feelings. He cannot name, describe, or verbalize them. This will help him get there, thanks for sharing!!! Greatful
This is fantastic! I added a blank circle and write-in space for an additional emotion, but this is a wonderful idea 🙂
Hello, I just downloaded this for my ASD student w/social anxiety: I would love if you could share the version that you shared/replied about, I would be very grateful, she responds to “inside out” very well… instead of saying (I don’t know).
Thank you so much.
I love the idea of having an other option so I added a photo of Bing Bing and a space to add another feeling!
Hello, I just downloaded this for my ASD student w/social anxiety: I would love if you could share the version that you shared/replied about, I would be very grateful, she responds to “inside out” very well… instead of saying (I don’t know).
Thank you so much.
Hi, I downloaded this lovely form for my students cause your idea simply blossoms!:D Could I please use this form for my thesis?(I am currently writing a thesis paper relating to adjectives and writing.) I am an English teacher. and I am a big fan of Inside Out just like you! Thank you very much!
You can absolutely use this in your thesis! Thanks for sharing with your students.
I LOVE this!
Definitely going to share with my family !! ❤️
What a beautiful worksheet ❤️
I love this! Is there any way you can share with me how to download a printable version of this? I would really like to use it with my students who have disabilities! Thanks!
Same.
See the part that says
Print the free Inside Out feelings journal to help your child express their feelings.
Click the words free inside out feelings and it opens Another window with document
How do I download